HOT: Technology, particularly the devices that let us choose how to communicate with people in a number of ways. I can call someone, text, email, or instant message, all from my cell phone. About the only thing I'm missing is morse code. (And I suppose I could tap the phone against a metallic surface.)
NOT: Poor grammar and abbreviations in text messages. Nearly every phone comes with a full QWERTY keyboard these days. Let's use them correctly.
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Sunday, April 26, 2009
An update of sorts
As the biggest thing in my life currently is WeddingLand (27 days and counting), the following update about my life will deal primarily with that. If you don't want to read it, then don't.
Last week looked like it was going to end on a bad note. My wedding coordinator/role model had to back out of the wedding, leaving me to find somebody capable of corralling both Posse's, both families, and a couple hundred people with only a month to go. I have not yet succeeded at this task, but I have some good leads. This is yet another opportunity to remember and practice my motto: "As long as I end up married, everything else can go diddle itself." Thanks to some awesome friends (shoutout to Ricky and Jess!), the week ended happily with the arrival of our first wedding present. They did an awesome job of zeroing in on the thing that would turn my funk around -- I have friends from all over the country (literally), who are coming in to celebrate with me. Not only that, my best friend ever is flying in for a three week sabbatical from Nicaragua (where she's working to start up and run a library) to help me get everything together.
Seriously, how lucky am I?
This weekend gets a gold star on the productivity chart. Beej and I are taking possession of our new apartment on Thursday, so we had a lot of paperwork and first inspections to do. I really love our place. It's bright and airy, and I got to meet a couple of our new neighbors. They have a black and white bulldog, so we'll get along really well.
In other news, congrats to Genny and Kim who took the FE this past weekend and I am sure rocked it. I raise my imaginary glass to them.
Time to go knock out some more tasks on my to do list. Remember to drink your Ovaltine, kids.
Last week looked like it was going to end on a bad note. My wedding coordinator/role model had to back out of the wedding, leaving me to find somebody capable of corralling both Posse's, both families, and a couple hundred people with only a month to go. I have not yet succeeded at this task, but I have some good leads. This is yet another opportunity to remember and practice my motto: "As long as I end up married, everything else can go diddle itself." Thanks to some awesome friends (shoutout to Ricky and Jess!), the week ended happily with the arrival of our first wedding present. They did an awesome job of zeroing in on the thing that would turn my funk around -- I have friends from all over the country (literally), who are coming in to celebrate with me. Not only that, my best friend ever is flying in for a three week sabbatical from Nicaragua (where she's working to start up and run a library) to help me get everything together.
Seriously, how lucky am I?
This weekend gets a gold star on the productivity chart. Beej and I are taking possession of our new apartment on Thursday, so we had a lot of paperwork and first inspections to do. I really love our place. It's bright and airy, and I got to meet a couple of our new neighbors. They have a black and white bulldog, so we'll get along really well.
In other news, congrats to Genny and Kim who took the FE this past weekend and I am sure rocked it. I raise my imaginary glass to them.
Time to go knock out some more tasks on my to do list. Remember to drink your Ovaltine, kids.
Saturday, February 21, 2009
Gay Marriage
Who should be able to marry? What about Christians and non-Christians ("do not be un-equally yoked")? In any event, despite whatever your personal views, preventing gay marriage is a losing battle.
The biggest protest against gay marriage is what I've heard called 'the sanctity of marriage'. It's true, marriage done right is sacred. Sadly, marriage in America hasn't been sacred for a long time. Divorce rates are at an all time high, and even in heterosexual relationships, open and polyamorous marriages are becoming more common. A man and a woman being married does not offer their relationship any innate protection from immorality and sin. The sancity of marriage is based on a relationship as God has designed--if your only requirement for what makes a marriage blessed by God is the genetalia of the participants, then you are setting yourself up for disappointment.
The fact remains that regardless of what the majority of the people may want, as homosexuality becomes more acceptable* [It will. If you believe it is sin, then a sinful society will embrace it. If it is natural, then the barriers are nothing but prejudice], you will begin to see fewer arguments for marriage being a right for some, but not all.
The only viable solution that I see for saving the word "marriage" (since that is what we are arguing over. It is impossible to mandate people from boinking whichever consenting adult they choose.) is as follows: the goverment will no longer issue marriage licenses. The state will offer civil unions to any two adults who wish to enter into a long term partnership. Romance will not be a factor, however, each adult can only have one such partnership at a time. These unions will cover ALL rights previously afforded to marriage--legal next of kin, shared resources, tax breaks,etc. (Civil unions will also be as difficult to dissolve as divorces are currently.)
Marriage will become a solely religious ceremony, with no legal implications.
Remember, compromise. If you feel the need to regulate who people boink, and are up in arms about a word, then you need to give something to get something. Gay people can have all of the benefits (and drawbacks) of "marriage", but they won't be able to use the word "marriage" as your church defines it.
Meanwhile, focus on other avenues of protecting and strengthening relationships. When we raise mature and independent adults who have the ability to commit to and keep their promises despite adversity; when two people prepare for a life changing decision-aligned in their unchangeable beliefs and compromising on all else, bearing with each other in love; when we offer our support to couples and use our relationships as open examples, sharing difficulties and triumphs; when love is treated less like a feeling and more like a committment and a sacrifice; and when the benefits of a long term partner, dearer to you than yourself is celebrated--when all of this is the norm of a marriage under God's blessing and created by His template--then and only then, can we say that we have protected the sanctity of marriage and have earned the right to fight for the word as well.
The biggest protest against gay marriage is what I've heard called 'the sanctity of marriage'. It's true, marriage done right is sacred. Sadly, marriage in America hasn't been sacred for a long time. Divorce rates are at an all time high, and even in heterosexual relationships, open and polyamorous marriages are becoming more common. A man and a woman being married does not offer their relationship any innate protection from immorality and sin. The sancity of marriage is based on a relationship as God has designed--if your only requirement for what makes a marriage blessed by God is the genetalia of the participants, then you are setting yourself up for disappointment.
The fact remains that regardless of what the majority of the people may want, as homosexuality becomes more acceptable* [It will. If you believe it is sin, then a sinful society will embrace it. If it is natural, then the barriers are nothing but prejudice], you will begin to see fewer arguments for marriage being a right for some, but not all.
The only viable solution that I see for saving the word "marriage" (since that is what we are arguing over. It is impossible to mandate people from boinking whichever consenting adult they choose.) is as follows: the goverment will no longer issue marriage licenses. The state will offer civil unions to any two adults who wish to enter into a long term partnership. Romance will not be a factor, however, each adult can only have one such partnership at a time. These unions will cover ALL rights previously afforded to marriage--legal next of kin, shared resources, tax breaks,etc. (Civil unions will also be as difficult to dissolve as divorces are currently.)
Marriage will become a solely religious ceremony, with no legal implications.
Remember, compromise. If you feel the need to regulate who people boink, and are up in arms about a word, then you need to give something to get something. Gay people can have all of the benefits (and drawbacks) of "marriage", but they won't be able to use the word "marriage" as your church defines it.
Meanwhile, focus on other avenues of protecting and strengthening relationships. When we raise mature and independent adults who have the ability to commit to and keep their promises despite adversity; when two people prepare for a life changing decision-aligned in their unchangeable beliefs and compromising on all else, bearing with each other in love; when we offer our support to couples and use our relationships as open examples, sharing difficulties and triumphs; when love is treated less like a feeling and more like a committment and a sacrifice; and when the benefits of a long term partner, dearer to you than yourself is celebrated--when all of this is the norm of a marriage under God's blessing and created by His template--then and only then, can we say that we have protected the sanctity of marriage and have earned the right to fight for the word as well.
Sunday, February 8, 2009
Things I like
Here are things I like lately:
1. "I'm Not Gonna Teach Your Boyfriend How To Dance With You" by Black Kids
2. The sunroof in the Vue.
3. Flip-flops
4. Beating a level in Mario
5. Completing things on my wedding to-do list. (We ordered the cake on Friday.)
6. Getting a hug from Noah (B.J.'s nephew)
7. The Genius feature in iTunes
8. Friday afternoons
9. My continued independence from Facebook
1. "I'm Not Gonna Teach Your Boyfriend How To Dance With You" by Black Kids
2. The sunroof in the Vue.
3. Flip-flops
4. Beating a level in Mario
5. Completing things on my wedding to-do list. (We ordered the cake on Friday.)
6. Getting a hug from Noah (B.J.'s nephew)
7. The Genius feature in iTunes
8. Friday afternoons
9. My continued independence from Facebook
Monday, February 2, 2009
There is a new addition to the blog roll. Check out my friend Tori. Best start reading before she gets famous.
Sunday, February 1, 2009
Cool Like
I enjoy Sunday mornings.
My fiance and I usually attend the early (8AM) service at our church. B.J. has to work at ten, so we eat a quick breakfast together before he leaves.
I am starting to value alone time more now than I remember at any other time in my life. Sunday mornings are the only time during the week when I have the house to myself. I don't do anything exciting-today I cleaned my room and started backing up my music to my external hard drive. I get the dogs to myself; I get to watch my tv shows off the DVR; I get to read without interruption and play whatever music I like as loud as I like.
B.J. and I are looking forward to having our own place to live, where we can enjoy time together (and even by ourselves on occassion). Until then, I have a standing date with iTunes and the DVR on Sunday mornings.
My fiance and I usually attend the early (8AM) service at our church. B.J. has to work at ten, so we eat a quick breakfast together before he leaves.
I am starting to value alone time more now than I remember at any other time in my life. Sunday mornings are the only time during the week when I have the house to myself. I don't do anything exciting-today I cleaned my room and started backing up my music to my external hard drive. I get the dogs to myself; I get to watch my tv shows off the DVR; I get to read without interruption and play whatever music I like as loud as I like.
B.J. and I are looking forward to having our own place to live, where we can enjoy time together (and even by ourselves on occassion). Until then, I have a standing date with iTunes and the DVR on Sunday mornings.
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Updates and Miscellaneous
I was attempting to write something about productivity, but I've got nothing. In lieu of that, here's some randomness:
-The chairman on Iron Chef America cracks me up.
-I get a tingle when I think about productivity, especially checking items off to do lists.
-Suddenly I have several more followers on twitter. I don't know what I'm saying, but it is making me internet popular.
-Ace of Cakes is on, and I have a fiance who just got home. Time to abandon the blog in favor of real life.
-The chairman on Iron Chef America cracks me up.
-I get a tingle when I think about productivity, especially checking items off to do lists.
-Suddenly I have several more followers on twitter. I don't know what I'm saying, but it is making me internet popular.
-Ace of Cakes is on, and I have a fiance who just got home. Time to abandon the blog in favor of real life.
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